single vs relationships

Category: Dating and Relationships

Post 1 by Miss Gorgeous (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Saturday, 11-Jun-2005 13:38:13

what would you like to be?

i'de rather be single for a long time, relationships juat makes things complicated. friends are much much better.

Post 2 by Inesle1987 (Account disabled) on Saturday, 11-Jun-2005 16:29:02

Relationship for me. Single is boring. At least in my opinion.

Post 3 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Saturday, 11-Jun-2005 16:55:59

relationships are wonderful, although they can be complicated at times. you just have to know how to make it work, and if the love is there, it'll be fine.

Post 4 by sugarbaby (The voice of reason) on Saturday, 11-Jun-2005 17:13:46

well, I don't think most peopel choose to be single, however, choosing to be in a relationship, you should do it for the right reasons, as in, because you want to be with that person, not because you want to be in a relationship, or more to the point, because you don't want to be single.

Post 5 by Chris N (I just keep on posting!) on Saturday, 11-Jun-2005 17:33:16

I'd rather be in a relationship if it's with someone that I'm compatible with. The trick is in finding that person.

Post 6 by laced-unlaced (Account disabled) on Sunday, 12-Jun-2005 7:49:03

i'd raver bee single.

it's your life and you can do what you like with it

Post 7 by netgirl (Account disabled) on Sunday, 12-Jun-2005 11:19:27

Hi all! Personally, I would rather be single. Flirting is fun!

Post 8 by bmisch (Veteran Zoner) on Sunday, 12-Jun-2005 11:33:09

i would rather be in a relationship.

Post 9 by netgirl (Account disabled) on Sunday, 12-Jun-2005 15:44:50

Hi bmisch. I'm happy that you would like to be in a relationship. I wish you the best of luck in finding that special someone.

Post 10 by bmisch (Veteran Zoner) on Sunday, 12-Jun-2005 16:01:14

thanks ng. hopefully that wasn't sarcastic.

Post 11 by Jess227 on Sunday, 12-Jun-2005 16:31:08

I'd rather be in a relationship.

Post 12 by Wraith (Prince of Chaos) on Monday, 13-Jun-2005 10:53:56

Single all the way, baby! Less problems, less problems... oh yes, and less problems. No one to share your money with, no one to steal your candies... no one to kidnap your favourite teddy bear!
No one to break your heart, no one to cheat on you, no one to lie to you, no one to screw you over or use you for your money...
There are a million and one reasons to be single, and I'm following every one of them!

Single for ever!

Post 13 by sugarbaby (The voice of reason) on Monday, 13-Jun-2005 10:57:05

ok ... so, let me take the concept a bit further then ... those of you who will remain single, does that also mean you wish to remain celebut?

Post 14 by Resonant (Find me alive.) on Monday, 13-Jun-2005 14:48:07

Relationship purely for relationship's sake? I'd rather go solo thanks. Relationships should be for the right reasons, namely, personal connection between two people, not a status indicator.

Post 15 by Miss Gorgeous (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Monday, 13-Jun-2005 18:42:53

Yep your right relationships are for the right reasons, I want to be in a relationship with someone because I love/like him and its not just because for the sake of having someone. that’s totally wrong I was ones in a relationship we both had a deep connection, strong chemistry, good start. We were like attached since the first time he started to talk to me. Well our relationship was good all the way but my parents made me chose between college or him. We did not have a choice so we are just friends for now. I still love him though and that complicates things when were hanging out as friends the feelings go back over and over again, and besides the break up was what we wanted. So, we cant blame anyone if the feelings goes back. I just know one thing, if your ment for each other then it will work out in the future no matter what goes on the way. And if you both love and care for each other then you will be happy of what ever happens to you and you will respect your partners decisions.

Post 16 by dissonance (Help me, I'm stuck to my chair!) on Saturday, 18-Jun-2005 1:11:50

For me, it depends on the person. I've learned the semi hard way that it's best not to just want a relationship just because all your friends have boyfriends or girlfriends, I mean seriously! That will cause me more trouble, to you know, just go for someone just because they're going for me, or just because they're there. I am not sure if I'm ready for commitment either, I mean i'm fourteen and I don't want to just mess around like most teenagers because that's just plane stupid. And heck yeah netgirl, flirting is fun! You can't do that in a relationship! And I'm not saying I've never been in a relationship, but I did break up with one guy because it just iddn't feel right for me to be like this. I think I'm better off single for now, despite what my teenage fancies try to tell me.

Post 17 by Eponine (If you find a rare Gem, hold it tightly!) on Saturday, 25-Jun-2005 18:33:50

Wow ! It's amazing where you find confirmation. Outch ! that stung ! But as for me? I'll choose a relationship. So, now, I'll just keep looking.

Post 18 by AngelOfBeauty (Her Angelness, Goddess of the zone) on Saturday, 25-Jun-2005 19:16:00

Well, in my opinion, I'd rather be in a relationship. It feels so good to have someone to talk to when I'm lonely, to love and to be loved, to share silly stories with, etc. Sure if you're single you can flirt, but flirting won't promise happiness. Besides, I'm in a relationship, and I still flirt. Doesn't mean I'm a lying cheating whore, just says I like to have fun. But I know at the end of the day, I love Michael. If you wait, your special someone will find you. Sometimes if you chase a dream too hard, the dream will fade away. And sometimes they're right in front of you.

Post 19 by Inesle1987 (Account disabled) on Sunday, 26-Jun-2005 11:47:02

I think Weaseldance is right, it depends on a person. But if someone is in love with me and I am in love with him, I would never choose to be single.

Post 20 by Chris N (I just keep on posting!) on Sunday, 26-Jun-2005 14:39:04

Very well said, AngelOfBeauty.

Post 21 by asdfghjkl (Account disabled) on Sunday, 26-Jun-2005 15:26:35

I guess I prefer either one whatever happens. Neither has seemed to work for me so far so...

Post 22 by Inesle1987 (Account disabled) on Sunday, 26-Jun-2005 15:34:55

I think there is time for both and both has its advantages and disadvantages. See, maybe, if you are single for a while, you desire to have a relationship. If you were in a difficult relationship for a while, you may desire to be single again.

Post 23 by Siriusly Severus (The ESTJ 1w9 3w4 6w7 The Taskmaste) on Wednesday, 17-Jun-2009 1:40:58

single, Yes, it's freedom!